As parents, we want nothing but the best for our children. Hence, we are so inclined in attending to their needs. It is a way we express our love. However, to give children the opportunity to become successful in life, we also have to teach them independence. Here are the reasons why children ought to learn independence.
It enables children to gain first hand knowledge. When children gain the chance to do things on their own, they are most likely to learn things efficiently. It is because they got to learn through trial and error.
It gives the opportunity to choose what will make them happy. Children need to practice to take choices. To develop their emotional maturity, they have to learn how to decide on their own. For now, these choices would not have to come in wide variety. Adults can give them set of choices. From these choices, children will have the freedom to pick one. Thus, they also learn that in life they cannot have everything. They only have the freedom to take choices.
Through independence children got to enhance their skills, learn right and wrong, develop their personality, and take decisions. To learn the ways of life, children need to experience life. This way, they will grow up strong, ready to take on life challenges, emotionally secured, and happy.